One mistake a lot of men and women make is trying to be someone they’re not to be more attractive. When you realize that you are loved then you will be. It’s the seeking love and approval paradigm that keeps love separate. Understand that by being authentic and loving yourself others will love you too. It’s a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you don’t love yourself you will expect to be rejected by others, and if you are not then you think you must have tricked them to believe that you are someone you are not. This kind of cycle makes you lose confidence.
We live in an abundant universe. All you need to do is make the choice to anticipate love being reciprocated instead of letting the fear of rejection drive you to put on a facade. Being “Real” is just being natural and comfortable with yourself as you are, and not trying to change your behavior to please others. Stay centered in who you are. It’s about having the mindset of abundance. This creates a win-win situation in a relationship, because instead feeling like you’re worthless and you’d be lucky to be loved. You can just relax and trust that you are lovable by being genuine, real, authentic, natural, optimistic, and sincere.
You might ask, “How do I be myself? I don’t know who I am.” From my experience it’s not about knowing who you are so much as who you are not. As we strip away layers of the ego we get to the core of who and what we are. Beyond all the thoughts, games, limiting beliefs, hopes and fears is our true self. It’s that pure awareness that you exist. From this place you don’t claim to be anything. You simply are. When we stop trying to prove ourselves we become very attractive. Meditation is a great way to release negativity, let go of resistance, become more present to the moment, stop seeking validation, and eliminate selfishness.
I’m constantly looking for ways to better myself by learning new information to improve my attitude, skills, and life. That’s an important part of being human as I see it. I choose to constantly evolve by educating myself through videos, books, quotes, and personal experiences. When it all comes down to it you need to think for yourself. You can find great benefit from hearing different points of view, although in the end, it’s all about what makes sense and works for you.
Here are 20 action packed affirmations for motivating yourself to make healthier choices.
You’ll find that if you use these affirmations regularly they can start to reprogram your subconscious mind, and you can change your behavior effortlessly without even thinking about it. It’s a lot like brushing your teeth. You could think about it, but you’ve done it so many times that you can just do it on autopilot. That’s how affirmations, hypnosis, and visualization work to change our habits.
Say the affirmations out loud if you can with feeling. What you are saying may not seem true to you, but over time you may start to notice your thoughts, attitudes, words and actions transform.
Whether you’re looking for a romantic partner, enhancing a current relationship, or working on loving yourself, affirmations can have a powerful impact in changing the way you think and feel. These 20 love affirmations are designed to be positive, in the now, and also contain action words which can motivate you to love and be loved from the subconscious level. If you feel more resistance saying certain affirmations then that may mean that you have a mental block keeping you from experiencing love. Repeat these 20 love affirmations whenever you’re feeling like you would like to increase love in your life.
Affirmations can have an affect on our confidence levels, and plant motivating seeds in our subconscious to help us walk the path of success. Thoughts, words, and feelings are very real and have energy. If we are negative in our orientation then we can miss opportunities without even realizing it, but through the use of affirmations we can start to reprogram the mind to seize these once in a lifetime potential realities. Here are 20 affirmations to open up vibrationally to receiving money. Repeat them daily for the best results.
I Bless This Day And Give Thanks For My Life
I Forgive Completely All People Who Have Hurt Me (Repeat 3 Times)
I Ask All People I Have Hurt To Please Forgive Me (Repeat 3 Times)
I Apologize To Myself For My Wrongs To Myself And My Wrongs To Others (Repeat 3 Times)
I Apologize For All My Hurts Or Wrongs To All Life Forms (Repeat 3 Times)
I Apologize For All My Hurts Or Wrongs To The Earth And The Life Of The Earth (Repeat 3 Times)
With This Release, Freedom, Peace, Power, And New Life, I Bless All Creation In The Entire Universe And I Fill The Entire Universe With My Love
I Love And Bless The Earth, All Life, And All Humanity
I Love, Bless, And Respect, The Visible, And The Invisible
I Rejoice And Give Thanks For My New Life, Power, And Health, And Give Complete Blessings And Love To All Life And All Creation Always
– Howard Wills
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Abraham, Source Energy interpreted by Esther Hicks, delivers a 5-part introduction to their teachings on The Law of Attraction at a February, 2008 Abraham-Hicks Workshop. The complete presentation runs 40 minutes.
Esther & Jerry Hicks are the authors of numerous books based on the Teachings of Abraham and their latest book, “Money and The Law of Attraction”, reached #1 on the New York Times bestseller list.
For over 20 years, Esther has translated blocks of thought from “Non-Physical Source Energy” – which she also identifies as her “Inner Being” or “Soul” – and who refer to themselves in the plural as “Abraham” (no relation to the Biblical figure).
Esther doesn’t use the word “channeling” to describe her process, but understands if others do. For more information, please view our YouTube video entitled “Abraham Explains Who They Are”, or go to http://www.abraham-hicks.com and listen to the audio entitled “Introduction To Abraham”.
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What makes this affirmation effective is that it has emotion in the word enjoy, and it also has an action word,’motivating,’ along with being in the present tense. Use it to reprogram your subconscious to increase motivation. Affirmations may feel like a lie at first, because we are so used to having negative self talk. If you keep with it then you’ll find that you can overcome the blockages that keep you from achieving your goals.
Inspirational lecture by Wayne Dyers on his masterpiece the ‘Power of Intention’ in which he details what the ego is and how it effects us on a daily basis as well as its negative role in understanding the power of attraction.